Dear Divorce Coach: My wife and I are getting divorced. She definitely has a personality disorder and I just couldn’t take it anymore. We have three kids and I think they should only live with me. She takes good care of them but I don’t think she deserves to have them because she treated me so badly. The problem is that I don’t have enough money to fight for custody for very long. I can delay contributing to their college funds, though, and I think it may be worth using that money to give her what she deserves instead—punishment! Can you recommend a really aggressive lawyer to help?

Dear Divorce Coach: My wife and I are getting divorced. She definitely has a personality disorder and I just couldn’t take it anymore. We have three kids and I think they should only live with me. She takes good care of them but I don’t think she deserves to have them because she treated me so badly. The problem is that I don’t have enough money to fight for custody for very long. I can delay contributing to their college funds, though, and I think it may be worth using that money to give her what she deserves instead—punishment! Can you recommend a really aggressive lawyer to help?

Dear Divorce Coach: My husband and I are divorced, and we share custody of our two children, 10 and 13. I think the children have a right to know about my husband’s adultery. I am suffering a great deal because of his actions and they need to know who their dad is. I also don’t want them interacting with his affair partner who is now living with him. How should I tell them about their dad and convince them not to talk to the other woman who they seem to like a lot?