What Makes Divorce After 50 Different Pew Research Center reports that divorce after 50 has roughly doubled since the 1990s. Dear Divorce Coach: I am 56, and my husband and I have been married for thirty-one years. Our children are grown and building lives of their...
Dear Divorce Coach
An Advice Column for Separation, Divorce, Co-Parenting and Blended Families5 Ways to Stop Endless Coparenting Text Conversations
Dear Divorce Coach: A divorce coach shares 5 boundary strategies for coparents stuck in never-ending text exchanges. Learn how to respond, close the loop, and stop engaging.
How Divorced Co-Parents Should Share Kids’ Technology Accounts
A Practical Guide to Managing Passwords, Devices, and Digital Access Across Two Homes
Nesting in the Same Home While Separating: A Professional Guide for Co-Parents
This letter outlines the major categories of decision-making co-parents must address when nesting in the same home, with specific attention to boundaries, rules, limits, and financial considerations.
How Do I Communicate with My Co-Parent When They Make Everything Difficult?
Dear Divorce Coach: When every conversation with your ex turns into an argument, it can leave you feeling defeated and exhausted. But calm isn’t something your co-parent gives you—it’s something you build and protect.
In this article, I share practical tools to help you stay grounded, communicate clearly, and keep your kids out of the crossfire. You’ll learn how to regulate your nervous system, use the BIFF method for difficult conversations, and stop reacting to every emotional landmine.
Read the full piece on the Dear Divorce Coach blog or on Substack to learn how to create peace, even in the middle of chaos.
How Can We Work on a Growth Mindset Together as a Couple?
Dear Divorce Coach: Just asking how to grow together means you’re stepping out of the “who’s right” trap and into the “how do we make this work” zone. That’s a growth mindset in action.





